Published on 27 Jun 2019 | Views 11115

Where's the Problem?



We all know that denial is the temporary relief we give ourselves. From the smallest packet of fries to worse off things such as binging on junk food daily. We ignore/deny so many things in life just so we convince ourselves that everything is alright. I can tell you that I am not scared of heights because I'm too embarrassed to accept it, and then you can see me freaking out on a flight for 2 and a half hours. I remember I had a gazillion friends who'd tell me that they hate gossiping about other people and then they'd come to me the next second and tell me about who did what where.

But that's just how it is. None of us want to accept that something is wrong with us. We still get defensive if someone says we've gained weight. We'll have answers ready at the tip of our tongue. "Hey I'm bloated" or "No it's just this T-shirt" but very rarely do we say "ya I haven't been working out much". Then there come major character traits that we'd rather just pretend like we don't have. Acceptance comes right at the very end unfortunately. Maybe you're too mean sometimes but you keep telling yourself that that's just how you talk and your friends know. Or maybe you have a very hard time saying no but you always convince yourself that you had no other way.

To quite a lot of us judging people comes very easily, but I'm sure we just as easily say "You can tell me anything, I don't judge". We've even seen it in Shitty Ideas Trending episodes with ROHINI and RISHI. Some of us may have a habit of nagging and never accept that we actually do it! There are just so many things we do that we won't accept unless we were put at gunpoint. Maybe we continue to deny them even then! I know for a fact that I spend my entire day on my mobile phone, and always get defensive when people ask me why I'm addicted to the phone while I'm sitting and liking pictures and videos on Instagram.

We've seen it with married couples also. Ego problems pop up when neither of them want to apologize but one can never be the first person to come up and say yeah I have an ego problem or yeah I know I get angry on things that don't mean much. Maybe your partner always leaves the geyser on but can never accept that they left the switch on. We hate finding flaws in ourselves, of course it's easier doing it to the person in front of us. But of-course that goes without saying that we all have our share of problems and quite often we may even stop realizing what is an issue and what isn't in the wide spectrum of things.

So now that ABHIMANYU'S Phoophaji is in town, what unique problem do you think he comes up with? And how do MEERA (Pooja Gor) and ABHIMANYU (Pracheen Chauhan) deal with it and dear Phoophaji? To find out watch the next episode of Pyaar ka Punch!

SIT presents Pyaar ka PunchE33 Phoophaji Ghar pe Hain.

 

 

Fiza Anand

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