What is a perfect relationship? Is there truly such a thing as one? Most people would have a simple answer to this question, and that is, NO. Although I beg to differ. I think my relationship is perfect, and to help you achieve perfection in your relationship, I'd like to ask you a question. Why do you need the relationship to be perfect in the first place? If you can answer that, half your problem will be solved.
SIT Founder and my husband MOHIT HUSSEIN believes that a relationship is like a dish. A very tasty dish. His favourite dish of all time is Biryani, hence he likes to compare our relationship to Biryani. How important it is for him to have his Biryani just the way he likes it! The right amount of spice, right amount of juice, correct quantity of meat and rice, the fried onions on top, and trust me, it's not very different from his perfect kind of relationship either. The right amount of love, combined with freedom, little bit of added spice of arguments, and the make-up after that. But does he not eat his Biryani if it's not perfect?
Oh no sir, he still does! He complains, but deep down inside, he still prefers it over anything else available! And again, that's exactly how he treats our relationship as well! Just the fact that we're fighting or getting irritated with each other, doesn't mean that he wants to go away and sulk!
So again, coming back to the question of why you need your relationship to be perfect. While you leave me the answer to that question in the comments below, I'd like to go ahead and answer that myself. Actually I don't! I need it to be imperfect, on the contrary! What's the fun in having a perfect relationship? The beauty lies in the imperfection. And in the unexpected. If I eat my favourite, perfect dish everyday, in all meals, I will most defintely look for options at other restaurants! But it's the fact that my dish is always cooked so differently that I have fun eating it. Sometimes looking forward to a better version, and sometimes taking pleasure in the unexpected new flavour!
So according to me, the recipe of a perfect relationship lies in the imperfection of it. And if you still didn't understand, let's see a perfectly imperfect situation in MEERA (Pooja Gor) and ABHIMANYU'S (Pracheen Chauhan) life in the new episode of PYAR KA PUNCH, where they end up fighting and it looks like this is going to be a big one. In fact, to be honest, this episode has all the key ingredients of a viral video, since aren't we all really, truly, just looking for the perfect relationship? I don't know how many of you will understand the intricacies of this video, but nevertheless, straight from Mr. SIT as we fondly call him, Mohit brings us his own version of this.
SIT presents PKP- THE PERFECT RELATIONSHIP
Published by Chhavi Mittal